Charles Esther
Online romance scams are spreading rapidly across Africa.
They leave behind broken hearts and empty bank accounts as fraudsters exploit dating apps, social media, and messaging platforms to deceive victims.
Scams Growing in Number and Sophistication
Authorities report that these scams are increasing not only in frequency but also in complexity.
Many perpetrators spend weeks gaining trust before inventing emergencies like medical expenses or travel costs to pressure victims into sending money.
The South African Police Service (SAPS) has issued warnings after a spike in reported cases, urging citizens to be cautious when forming online relationships.
Victims often lose large sums of money, but the emotional damage of betrayal lingers far longer.
How the Scams Operate
Fraudsters typically spend weeks or months building trust with targets.
Once convinced, victims are asked to fund fake medical treatments, travel plans, or investment opportunities.
Investigations show that many scams are run by organised groups such as Nigeria’s “Yahoo Boys,” who specialise in elaborate digital fraud schemes.
These groups use psychological tricks to manipulate vulnerable individuals.
Victims may believe they are chatting with one person, when in reality, a team works in shifts to maintain the illusion of constant availability and affection.
Tactics Used by Fraudsters
Often, the targets are older men.
Scammers pretend to be attractive women by using hired models or sex workers for photos, video calls, or even in-person meetings.
The syndicates pay these individuals to maintain the deception.
This creates a strong illusion of romance that traps victims emotionally and financially.
Who is Most at Risk
Experts note that older people, widows, and those seeking companionship online are frequent targets.
Fraudsters prey on loneliness, offering affection and emotional support that feels genuine.
In many cases, victims become isolated from loved ones as scammers demand secrecy.
Younger users are also at risk.
Fraudsters increasingly exploit platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and LinkedIn, using hooks such as fake investments, cryptocurrency schemes, or luxury lifestyle promises.
Although the approach differs, the end goal remains the same: to extract money or sensitive information.
Protecting Yourself from Romance Scams
Cybersecurity experts recommend the following safety measures:
- Never send money to someone you have never met in person.
- Use reverse image searches to verify profile pictures.
- Watch for warning signs such as rushed love declarations, secrecy requests, or financial demands.
