Charles Esther
Nick Lachey and his wife, Vanessa Lachey, are not only married but also professional co-hosts of Netflix’s popular reality series Love is Blind.
Working together on a high-pressure show can be challenging, but the Lacheys have found a powerful strategy to keep their relationship thriving.
They follow what Nick calls a “golden rule” to separate their personal and professional lives as much as possible.
Keeping Work and Home Life Separate
In a recent interview on the Richer Lives by SoFi podcast, Nick Lachey opened up about how he and Vanessa manage their dual roles as spouses and co-workers.
“I think the best thing you can do is not bring your work home with you,” Nick said.
“When you work with your spouse, that can be tricky, but I think we do a really good job of doing that for the most part.”
He emphasized the importance of boundaries, explaining that any conflict from home should be left behind when it’s time to go on set.
“Sometimes you show up for work and there’s an argument at home that you brought with you to work, and you don’t want that to bleed over,” he said.
Compartmentalizing Is Key
Nick believes that compartmentalization is crucial when blending a romantic and professional relationship.
“I think it’s kind of good to compartmentalize and recognize that, you know, you’re here doing a job,” he added.
Their golden rule?
“Don’t bring work home. Don’t bring home to work. Try and keep it as separate as you can.”
A Relationship Built on Communication
Nick and Vanessa began dating in 2006 and tied the knot in 2011.
They share three children and have been co-hosting Love is Blind since its launch in 2020.
They also co-host The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On, another reality dating series on Netflix that premiered in 2022.
Despite their busy careers and parenting responsibilities, the couple makes their marriage a priority.
In a February interview with Brides, they revealed that they attend marriage therapy and set aside two dedicated days each week to nurture their relationship.
“Anything that’s worth having takes work,” Nick told Brides.
“To me, that’s a cornerstone of life, and marriage is no different. There’s no shame in that.”
Celebrities Who Also Prioritize Marriage Balance
The Lacheys aren’t alone in emphasizing the importance of separating work from personal life.
Jay Shetty and his wife, who also run a business together, make a point to avoid work discussions during dinner.
Gordon Ramsay and his wife, Tana, go on regular date nights and dress up to keep their connection alive.
Meanwhile, some celebrity couples choose not to mix business and pleasure at all.
Usher and his wife, a music executive, have opted not to work together professionally.
Final Thoughts
Nick and Vanessa Lachey’s golden rule—keeping work and home life separate—serves as a helpful blueprint for couples working together.
By creating boundaries, seeking therapy, and prioritizing each other, they’ve proven it’s possible to mix marriage and business successfully.
Their story shows that with the right mindset and effort, couples can thrive both at home and at work.
