David Awoyode
AJ Wolfe, a lifelong Disney fan and founder of the Disney Food Blog, has written a new book exploring the world of “Disney adults.” Her book, Disney Adults: Exploring (And Falling in Love With) A Magical Subculture, debuted on August 5 and quickly climbed onto The New York Times best-sellers list.
Misconceptions About Disney Adults
For many outsiders, Disney superfans who dress in princess costumes, collect merchandise, or ink Mickey tattoos are dismissed as “kidults” unwilling to grow up. But Wolfe argues this stereotype misses the true complexity of the fandom.
The Biggest Challenge Comes From Within
According to Wolfe, Disney adults often face more criticism from their own peers than from outsiders. During her research, she found that Disney enthusiasts sometimes judge one another based on how deeply invested they are in the fandom.
A Hierarchy of Passion
Wolfe noted that fans without annual passes, full collections of Disney movies, or experience at every resort hotel can face subtle — or outright — shaming. “There’s this judgment, this hierarchy, and this status thing that goes on with Disney adults,” she explained.
High Standards in Disney Fandom
Other Disney enthusiasts echoed Wolfe’s observations. Some said distinctions are made between Disneyland and Disney World visitors, or between guests staying at luxury resorts such as the Yacht Club versus the Beach Club.
Disney megafan Shae Noble admitted she’s “definitely seen some judgment,” while her husband, John Telyea, added that superfans sometimes rank others by their choice of hotels and parks.
Theme Parks vs. Movies: A Divide in Passion
Max Traughber-Crismon, another Disney devotee, said there is often more intensity among park visitors compared to casual fans who only watch Disney films. “I rarely find that they ‘bleed’ Disney,” he said of occasional visitors.
Social Media’s Role in Fandom Pressures
Wolfe believes platforms like TikTok and Reddit amplify competition within fandoms, though she doesn’t solely blame influencers. She noted that similar dynamics exist in other groups, such as sports fans or Taylor Swift’s “Swifties.”
The Hidden Side of Disney Adults
Despite the stereotypes, many Disney enthusiasts keep their passion discreet. “The surgeon doing your colonoscopy might have a Mickey tattoo — you don’t know that,” Wolfe remarked, highlighting that Disney fandom often extends beyond appearances
Charles Esther